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Transform Your Family from Daily Chaos to Lasting Calm—Without Bribes, Threats, or Endless Power Struggles
For thoughtful, conscientious parents who do everything "right" but still feel constant friction at home
Transform Your Family from Daily Chaos to Lasting Calm
Smart, Loving Parents Still Get Stuck...
We Help You Break the Cycle
You've given your children every advantage—good home, great schools, enriching activities—yet you still feel exhausted and wonder if you're failing. You're not. You just need the right map.
Stop the cycle of bedtime battles, screen-time wars, and constant discipline struggles. End the guilt that comes from feeling like you're "messing up" despite doing everything right.
Start experiencing natural cooperation from connected, secure children and unified parenting that strengthens your marriage. Create the peaceful family life you always envisioned while helping your children grow into their greatest potential.
This Work Isn't for Everyone...
But It's Life-Changing for Those Ready to Commit
You're not looking for another parenting hack or quick tip. You've already tried those. You want something that actually works for the long haul.
You're the parent who reads the research, invests in your family, and genuinely cares about raising emotionally healthy kids. But you're tired of cobbling together advice from different sources that don't seem to fit together.
You're ready for a proven system that addresses everything at once—not just behavior, but connection, family dynamics, and helping your children thrive in life. And you're ready to start now.
Your Path to Transformation
Choose the level of support that's right for your family's journey
What Makes Our Approach Different
Attachment-First Science
We treat behavior as a symptom, not the problem. Connection is the medicine. Built on 20+ years of clinical experience and attachment research from the Neufeld Institute.
Whole-Family Transformation
We address child behavior and parental mindset, couple dynamics, and modern stressors that other approaches often overlook.
Proven
90-Day Process
A systematic approach combining education, coaching, and community support that creates lasting change, not temporary fixes.
2,000+ Families
Real change.
Real connection.
Proven Process
Life-changing results
in just 3 months.
Expert-Led
Backed by 20+ years
of experience.
1 Home at at Time
You don't have to
do this alone.
Don't Take Our Word For It
Todd does something delicate and rare. He brings great depth, genuine expertise and practical advice and yet balances this with compassion and humility.
In a field where so many parenting 'experts' unwittingly leave a parent feeling inadequate, Todd empowers.
Kim John Payne, M.Ed.
Author of Simplicity Parenting and The Soul of Discipline
Todd is one of the most intuitive, instructive and down to earth practitioners I know. His classes always get rave reviews. Most importantly, he leaves parents with reassurance and direction.
The toughest part about educating parents is making sure that they leave with practical, enforceable and realistic solutions for their particular family. Todd delivers in spades.
Madeline Levine, Ph.D.
Clinical Psychologist and Author of The Price of Privilege and Teach Your Children Well
Todd brings a sensitivity and compassion to his profession together with a strong understanding of how to help parents with their children.
I have enjoyed the opportunity to work closely with him and have been impressed by his perceptiveness and effectiveness in presenting and in parent consulting. Parents can be assured they are in good hands with Todd.
Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D.
Developmental Psychologist and Author of Hold On to Your Kids
I felt like I was failing at everything—being a good mom, having a good marriage, raising kind kids. My husband and I would argue about discipline constantly.
Todd helped us stop fighting each other and start parenting as a team. Our home feels peaceful again, and our kids are thriving. I finally feel proud of the parent I am.
Emily
Mom of 3, Mill Valley, CA
Before working with Todd, parenting felt like a constant tug-of-war. One of us wanted more structure, the other wanted more connection, and we couldn’t agree on anything.
It started to affect our marriage—we were both exhausted and frustrated and didn't feel heard. Todd helped us step back, understand our kids better, and most importantly, understand each other. We finally feel like we’re parenting from the same place.
Our kids feel it too. There’s more peace in our home—and in our relationship.
Ashley & David
Parents of 2, Saratoga, CA
I used to yell a lot. I’m not proud of it. But I didn’t know how else to get through to my son.
Todd helped me understand what was going on beneath the behavior—and gave me a completely different way to respond. It changed everything.
Jason
Father of two boys, Seattle, WA
Ready to Transform Your Family?
This isn't about quick fixes. If you want easy answers, this program isn't for you.
But if this sounds like you and the timing feels right, take the first step to see if you qualify for our transformation process.
Start with our FREE 20-Minute Masterclass: "How Parents End Chaos, Power Struggles And Overwhelm To Reconnect With Their Kids In As Little As 90 Days"
Then download your bonus PDF: "The 10 Parenting Traps Smart, Successful Parents Fall Into—And How to Avoid Them"
Note: Due to high demand, our 90-Day Program requires an application process. You must first watch the masterclass or read the report before applying.
Frequently Asked Questions
I’ve read all the parenting books and still feel stuck. How is this different?
Most parenting advice offers generic tips or temporary fixes. Transformative Parenting focuses on your family’s unique dynamics. Todd’s 20+ years as a psychotherapist and developmental expert mean you’re getting science-backed tools that address the root of struggles—not just surface behaviors.
My kid is defiant/strong-willed. Will this work for us?
Absolutely. Strong-willed kids need secure leadership, not control. Todd’s approach teaches you to set boundaries while deepening connection, so cooperation comes from trust—not fear or bribes.
How is this different from therapy or family counseling?
Therapy often focuses on healing the past; Todd’s coaching is action-oriented. You’ll get step-by-step strategies for today’s battles (bedtime meltdowns, sibling fights, partner disagreements) while building long-term emotional health for your whole family.
What if my spouse and I parent totally differently?
You’re not alone. Todd specializes in helping couples align without blame. The 90-Day Program includes tools to bridge gaps, so you parent as a team—even if you start out worlds apart.
I’m exhausted. How much time will this take?
Free Masterclass: 1 hour (immediate insights).
Self-Paced Course: 10–15 mins/day for small, sustainable changes.
90-Day Program: Deeper work, but we prioritize ease—no homework piles.
Why is your approach better than positive parenting/gentle discipline/etc.?
Todd combines attachment science with real-world practicality. No idealism—just tools that work when you’re tired, rushed, or at your wit’s end. (Even if you’ve tried other methods and failed.)
Is this just for moms? Dads feel overwhelmed too!
Dads are welcome (and often thrive here!). Todd’s strategies speak to all caregivers—whether you’re a CEO, stay-at-home parent, or co-parenting across households.
What if I can’t afford the 90-Day Program?
Start with the Free Masterclass or self-paced course. Many parents see enough progress there—but if you need deeper support, payment plans are available.
I’m worried I’ve already damaged my kids. Is it too late?
Never. Kids are resilient, and repair is always possible. Todd’s helped families with teens, adoptees, and high-conflict dynamics rebuild trust—even after years of struggle.
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