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About Todd Sarner
A Trusted Guide for Parents Who Want More Than Just “Getting Through the Day”
So many of the parents I work with are smart, successful, and deeply devoted to their families. They read the books. They do the research. They care—deeply. But behind closed doors, it’s a different story.
Constant battles over basic routines
Endless power struggles
Yelling that leaves everyone feeling awful
Disconnection from the very people they love the most
I know what it's like to feel overwhelmed and exhausted - even while trying your absolute best. I've helped over 2,000 families break free from that cycle. And I can help yours too.
Why I Do This Work
Yes, I help parents create calmer, more connected homes. But the real reason I do this work is because I believe in who your children can become—and I know they need you to help them get there.
Children thrive when they feel safe, secure, and truly connected. That’s when they become confident, resilient, and emotionally intelligent. That’s when they reach their full potential—in relationships, in learning, in life.
But that only happens when parents have the tools, support, and insight to show up as their best selves.
That’s why I do this work.
Reclaim Peace at Home
Without Losing Yourself in the Process
At Transformative Parenting, we help devoted parents like you turn daily chaos into calm, connection, and clarity.
Through our masterclass and proven 90-day coaching process, we help you:
Stop yelling and start connecting with your kids
Get your spouse on the same page without blame or resentment
Build a peaceful home where everyone feels seen, heard, and secure
You don’t need another parenting book. You need a proven process
This work isn't for everyone...
and that's ok
I don't work with parents who:
2,000+ Families
Real change.
Real connection.
Proven Process
Life-changing results
in just 3 months.
Expert-Led
Backed by 20+ years
of experience.
What Makes My Process Unique?
I'm a licensed psychotherapist
not just a parenting influencer
I've worked with thousands of families
not just online,
but in real life
I don't offer tips and tricks
I offer a complete transformation, from the inside out
"You deserve a home where everyone can thrive"
- Todd Sarner
Imagine a family life where:
Your kids feel safe, heard and cooperative
Your partner feels like your teammate again
And you finally feel proud of the parent you've become
And imagine watching your children grow into confident, capable young adults—fully themselves, and ready to meet life with strength and heart.
That’s what’s possible when your family life is built on deep connection.
A Personal Note
I know this work is deeply personal. I don’t take that lightly. I’ve walked this path myself—as a parent, as a professional, and as a human being. If you’re ready to grow—not just as a parent, but as a person—I’d be honored to walk with you.
Because at the end of the day, parenting isn't just about raising kids. It's about helping the people we love most become who they're meant to be.
Reclaim Peace at Home
Without Losing Yourself in the Process
Watch the Free Masterclass Discover the 3 hidden traps even smart, successful parents fall into—and how to avoid them.
Apply the Tools at Home You’ll start seeing shifts in behavior and connection—even after just one video.
Join the Full Coaching Experience for families ready for true transformation, our 90-day program offers personalized coaching and a complete roadmap.
Frequently Asked Questions
I’ve read all the parenting books and still feel stuck. How is this different?
Most parenting advice offers generic tips or temporary fixes. Transformative Parenting focuses on your family’s unique dynamics. Todd’s 20+ years as a psychotherapist and developmental expert mean you’re getting science-backed tools that address the root of struggles—not just surface behaviors.
My kid is defiant/strong-willed. Will this work for us?
Absolutely. Strong-willed kids need secure leadership, not control. Todd’s approach teaches you to set boundaries while deepening connection, so cooperation comes from trust—not fear or bribes.
How is this different from therapy or family counseling?
Therapy often focuses on healing the past; Todd’s coaching is action-oriented. You’ll get step-by-step strategies for today’s battles (bedtime meltdowns, sibling fights, partner disagreements) while building long-term emotional health for your whole family.
What if my spouse and I parent totally differently?
You’re not alone. Todd specializes in helping couples align without blame. The 90-Day Program includes tools to bridge gaps, so you parent as a team—even if you start out worlds apart.
I’m exhausted. How much time will this take?
Free Masterclass: 1 hour (immediate insights).
Self-Paced Course: 10–15 mins/day for small, sustainable changes.
90-Day Program: Deeper work, but we prioritize ease—no homework piles.
Why is your approach better than positive parenting/gentle discipline/etc.?
Todd combines attachment science with real-world practicality. No idealism—just tools that work when you’re tired, rushed, or at your wit’s end. (Even if you’ve tried other methods and failed.)
Is this just for moms? Dads feel overwhelmed too!
Dads are welcome (and often thrive here!). Todd’s strategies speak to all caregivers—whether you’re a CEO, stay-at-home parent, or co-parenting across households.
What if I can’t afford the 90-Day Program?
Start with the Free Masterclass or self-paced course. Many parents see enough progress there—but if you need deeper support, payment plans are available.
I’m worried I’ve already damaged my kids. Is it too late?
Never. Kids are resilient, and repair is always possible. Todd’s helped families with teens, adoptees, and high-conflict dynamics rebuild trust—even after years of struggle.
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