Education - Understanding the science behind behavior and attachment
Action - Specific, doable steps you can implement immediately
Coaching - Weekly live support to troubleshoot real-time challenges
Problem-solving - Personalized strategies for your family's unique dynamics
Community - Support from like-minded parents on the same journey
Parental mindset and triggers - Your own patterns and emotional reactions
Couple dynamics - How parenting disagreements affect the whole family
Modern family stressors - Screen time, overscheduling, social media pressure
Long-term family vision - Preparing emotionally resilient children for their future
Connection is the medicine - Behavior issues are symptoms of disconnection
Regulation comes first - Calm parents create calm children
Relationships matter most - Strong bonds are the foundation of cooperation
Books can offer insight—but they can’t offer transformation. What’s missing for most parents isn’t information; it’s application, support, and accountability. The Transformative Parenting Process is an intensive, guided experience that helps you actually implement what works—in your unique family, with your unique child. You won’t be doing this alone, and you’ll see real change not just in behavior, but in connection, peace, and confidence at home.
Yes. In fact, this approach is designed for kids who don’t respond to typical strategies. Strong-willed children are often deeply sensitive and need connection, structure, and leadership—not control. The tools you’ll learn will help you shift the dynamic so that your child feels safe to follow your lead. Many parents of intense, challenging kids have said, “This is the first thing that actually worked.”
Traditional therapy often focuses on insight or diagnosis, but doesn’t always provide a clear roadmap for change. What we do is coaching: it’s practical, structured, and deeply transformational. You’ll still get emotional support—but you’ll also get a step-by-step process, tools that work, and real-time guidance. It’s less about talking through the past and more about building a new future at home.
That’s common—and it doesn’t mean you can’t move forward. Many couples start this process with different styles and concerns. Our approach helps you align without blaming, and gives you language and tools to communicate more effectively—not just with your child, but with each other. The bonus workshop “Parenting with Your Partner” is specifically designed to help with this.
This is built for busy, overwhelmed parents. Most spend 2–5 hours a week between the live call and optional support tools. And the truth is—doing nothing often costs more time and energy in the long run. What you’ll learn here makes everyday parenting easier, calmer, and more connected. It’s not about doing more, it’s about doing what works.
We share many values with those approaches—like respect, empathy, and avoiding harsh punishment. But what makes the Transformative Parenting Process different is that it’s rooted in attachment science and developmental psychology, not just behavior. We don’t just manage symptoms; we go deeper to shift the underlying dynamic. That’s where real change happens.
Dads are welcome (and often thrive here!). Todd’s strategies speak to all caregivers—whether you’re a CEO, stay-at-home parent, or co-parenting across households.
Start with the Free Masterclass or self-paced course. Many parents see enough progress there—but if you need deeper support, payment plans are available.
Never. Kids are resilient, and repair is always possible. Todd’s helped families with teens, adoptees, and high-conflict dynamics rebuild trust—even after years of struggle.