How We Help

Different Levels of Support.
One Proven Path to Transformation.

Our Transformative 3-Phase System

Unlike piecemeal approaches that offer temporary fixes, our Transformative Parenting Process Intensive (TPPI) is a comprehensive 90-day system that combines education, action, coaching, problem-solving, and community support to create lasting family transformation.

Most parenting advice treats symptoms. We address the root.

The Winning Combination

Our approach succeeds where others fail because it combines all the essential elements:

  • Education - Understanding the science behind behavior and attachment

  • Action - Specific, doable steps you can implement immediately

  • Coaching - Weekly live support to troubleshoot real-time challenges

  • Problem-solving - Personalized strategies for your family's unique dynamics

    Community - Support from like-minded parents on the same journey

Whole-Family Transformation

We don't just focus on child behavior. We address:

  • Parental mindset and triggers - Your own patterns and emotional reactions

  • Couple dynamics - How parenting disagreements affect the whole family

  • Modern family stressors - Screen time, overscheduling, social media pressure

  • Long-term family vision - Preparing emotionally resilient children for their future

Attachment-First Science

Built on developmental neuroscience and attachment theory, our approach recognizes that:

  • Connection is the medicine - Behavior issues are symptoms of disconnection

  • Regulation comes first - Calm parents create calm children

  • Relationships matter most - Strong bonds are the foundation of cooperation

The 90-Day Journey: What to Expect

This transformation unfolds in three strategic phases that build upon each other.

Phase 1 (Weeks 1-4): Attachment & Connection Build the foundation of secure attachment that makes children naturally receptive to guidance. Learn to understand attachment patterns, master "collecting" your child, and create deep connection for growth.

Phase 2 (Weeks 5-7): Environment & Regulation Create structures that support nervous system regulation. Develop natural consequences, regulation strategies for both children and parents, and nurturing physical routines.

Phase 3 (Weeks 8-12): Discipline & Behavior Transform from reactive punishment to proactive leadership. Address resistance and defiance, master limit-setting, handle aggression, and tackle common issues like sibling rivalry and screen time.

Throughout all phases: Weekly live group coaching with Todd, community support from other committed parents, and real-time problem-solving for your family's unique challenges.

Start Here: The Free Masterclass

Discover the 3 hidden traps even smart, successful parents fall into—and how to avoid them.

Apply the Tools at Home. You’ll start seeing shifts in behavior and connection, even after just one video.

Join the Full Coaching Experience for families ready for true transformation. Our 90-day program offers personalized coaching and a complete roadmap.

Free Download: The 10 Parenting Traps Smart, Successful Parents Fall Into

You're educated, intentional, and doing everything "right"—but you're still seeing meltdowns, power struggles, or resistance at home. It's not your fault. You're likely stuck in one of the 10 most common parenting traps without even realizing it.

This free guide helps you spot the subtle patterns that sabotage connection, understand why traditional discipline backfires, and get immediate shifts that bring more peace to your home this week.

This isn't just another checklist. It's a diagnostic tool that reveals why your parenting efforts might not be working—and what to do instead.

Frequently Asked Questions

I’ve read all the parenting books and still feel stuck. How is this different?

Books can offer insight—but they can’t offer transformation. What’s missing for most parents isn’t information; it’s application, support, and accountability. The Transformative Parenting Process is an intensive, guided experience that helps you actually implement what works—in your unique family, with your unique child. You won’t be doing this alone, and you’ll see real change not just in behavior, but in connection, peace, and confidence at home.

My kid is defiant/strong-willed. Will this work for us?

Yes. In fact, this approach is designed for kids who don’t respond to typical strategies. Strong-willed children are often deeply sensitive and need connection, structure, and leadership—not control. The tools you’ll learn will help you shift the dynamic so that your child feels safe to follow your lead. Many parents of intense, challenging kids have said, “This is the first thing that actually worked.”

How is this different from therapy or family counseling?

Traditional therapy often focuses on insight or diagnosis, but doesn’t always provide a clear roadmap for change. What we do is coaching: it’s practical, structured, and deeply transformational. You’ll still get emotional support—but you’ll also get a step-by-step process, tools that work, and real-time guidance. It’s less about talking through the past and more about building a new future at home.

What if my spouse and I parent totally differently?

That’s common—and it doesn’t mean you can’t move forward. Many couples start this process with different styles and concerns. Our approach helps you align without blaming, and gives you language and tools to communicate more effectively—not just with your child, but with each other. The bonus workshop “Parenting with Your Partner” is specifically designed to help with this.

I’m exhausted. How much time will this take?

This is built for busy, overwhelmed parents. Most spend 2–5 hours a week between the live call and optional support tools. And the truth is—doing nothing often costs more time and energy in the long run. What you’ll learn here makes everyday parenting easier, calmer, and more connected. It’s not about doing more, it’s about doing what works.

Why is your approach better than positive parenting/gentle discipline/etc.?

We share many values with those approaches—like respect, empathy, and avoiding harsh punishment. But what makes the Transformative Parenting Process different is that it’s rooted in attachment science and developmental psychology, not just behavior. We don’t just manage symptoms; we go deeper to shift the underlying dynamic. That’s where real change happens.

Is this just for moms? Dads feel overwhelmed too!

Dads are welcome (and often thrive here!). Todd’s strategies speak to all caregivers—whether you’re a CEO, stay-at-home parent, or co-parenting across households.

What if I can’t afford the 90-Day Program?

Start with the Free Masterclass or self-paced course. Many parents see enough progress there—but if you need deeper support, payment plans are available.

I’m worried I’ve already damaged my kids. Is it too late?

Never. Kids are resilient, and repair is always possible. Todd’s helped families with teens, adoptees, and high-conflict dynamics rebuild trust—even after years of struggle.