80% drop in daily meltdowns (average across all participants)
Calm, confident leadership that children naturally respect
Natural cooperation from children without bribes or threats
Sustained family harmony that deepens over time
Strengthened marriages as couples learn to parent as a unified team
"I felt like I was failing at everything—being a good mom, having a good marriage, raising kind kids. My husband and I would argue about discipline constantly. Todd helped us stop fighting each other and start parenting as a team. Our home feels peaceful again, and our kids are thriving. I finally feel proud of the parent I am."
Daily arguments between parents eliminated
Children responding with cooperation instead of resistance
Family dinner time became peaceful and enjoyable
Bedtime battles completely resolved
Emily
Mom of 3, Mill Valley, CA
"Honestly, we were a mess. I wanted more rules and consequences, my husband wanted to be the 'fun parent,' and we'd argue about everything. Should we let our daughter stay up late? How do we handle tantrums? We couldn't agree on anything, and it was killing our marriage.
Todd helped us realize we actually wanted the same thing—we just had different ideas about how to get there. Once we understood what our kids really needed, we stopped fighting each other and started working together. The kids picked up on it immediately. Our house actually feels peaceful now, and honestly, my husband and I like each other again."
Parenting disagreements transformed into collaborative problem-solving
Children's anxiety decreased significantly when parents unified
Marriage strengthened through shared parenting approach
Family stress levels dropped dramatically
Ashley & David
Parents of 2, Saratoga, CA
"I used to yell a lot. I'm not proud of it. But I didn't know how else to get through to my son. Todd helped me understand what was going on beneath the behavior—and gave me a completely different way to respond. It changed everything."
Eliminated daily yelling and power struggles
Father-son relationship transformed from adversarial to connected
Children began approaching dad with problems instead of avoiding him
Family atmosphere shifted from tension to warmth
Jason
Father of Two Boys, Seattle, WA
"I was completely burnt out. Between work deadlines and coming home to chaos every night, I felt like I was failing at everything. My daughter would lose it over the smallest homework assignment—like, full-on screaming matches. And my son? Let's just say the other parents at preschool pickup definitely noticed his behavior.
The worst part was feeling so incompetent. I can run a team at work, I have an MBA, but I couldn't get my 5-year-old to put on his shoes without a fight. Todd helped me see that I was treating my kids like employees instead of, you know, actual little people with feelings. Once I stopped trying to 'manage' them and started really connecting with them, it was like a switch flipped."
Daily meltdowns reduced by 90% within 6 weeks
Children's behavior at school improved dramatically
Single mom gained confidence in her parenting abilities
Family activities became enjoyable instead of stressful
Maria
Single Mom of 2, Portland, OR
"Our middle son. He's this incredibly smart kid, but living with him was like having a tiny lawyer in the house. Everything was a negotiation. 'Why do I have to brush my teeth?' 'Why can't I eat ice cream for breakfast?' 'But WHY, Mom?' I swear, I heard 'why' about 500 times a day.
We tried everything—sticker charts, taking away privileges, even bribing him with screen time. Nothing worked. The worst part? I started avoiding him. Like, I'd cringe when he walked into the room, and then I'd feel like the worst mom ever.
Todd totally shifted how we saw it. He helped us realize that all that arguing wasn't defiance—it was actually his way of trying to connect with us. Once we started channeling that energy instead of fighting it, he became this amazing little helper. He still asks a million questions, but now he's using that curiosity to help his sister with her homework and figure out playground drama. Same kid, totally different dynamic."
Power struggles with strong-willed child eliminated
Child's natural leadership qualities channeled positively
Family harmony restored with all three children
Parents gained tools for handling future challenges
Jennifer & Mark
Parents of 3, Austin, TX
"Co-parenting after divorce is brutal. My ex would let the kids stay up until midnight, eat whatever they wanted, and basically had zero rules. Then they'd come back to my house completely wired and out of control. I'd spend the first two days of every visit just trying to get them back to normal.
I was so angry about what I couldn't change—like, why can't he just follow a bedtime routine?—that I was making myself crazy. Todd helped me focus on what I actually could control, which was creating this calm, predictable space at my house.
Now when the kids come home, they know what to expect. They know I'm not going to yell or freak out, even when they're acting wild. It took a few months, but they actually started looking forward to coming back here. My house became their safe place, and honestly, that's all I ever wanted."
Power struggles with strong-willed child eliminated
Child's natural leadership qualities channeled positively
Family harmony restored with all three children
Parents gained tools for handling future challenges
Sarah
Divorced Mom of 2, Phoenix, AZ