Stop the cycle of bedtime battles, screen-time wars, and constant discipline struggles. End the guilt that comes from feeling like you're "messing up" despite doing everything right.
Start experiencing natural cooperation from connected, secure children and unified parenting that strengthens your marriage. Create the peaceful family life you always envisioned while helping your children grow into their greatest potential.
You're not looking for another parenting hack or quick tip. You've already tried those. You want something that actually works for the long haul.
You're the parent who reads the research, invests in your family, and genuinely cares about raising emotionally healthy kids. But you're tired of cobbling together advice from different sources that don't seem to fit together.
You're ready for a proven system that addresses everything at once—not just behavior, but connection, family dynamics, and helping your children thrive in life. And you're ready to start now.
Todd does something delicate and rare. He brings great depth, genuine expertise and practical advice and yet balances this with compassion and humility.
In a field where so many parenting 'experts' unwittingly leave a parent feeling inadequate, Todd empowers.
Kim John Payne, M.Ed.
Author of Simplicity Parenting and The Soul of Discipline
Todd is one of the most intuitive, instructive and down to earth practitioners I know. His classes always get rave reviews. Most importantly, he leaves parents with reassurance and direction.
The toughest part about educating parents is making sure that they leave with practical, enforceable and realistic solutions for their particular family. Todd delivers in spades.
Madeline Levine, Ph.D.
Clinical Psychologist and Author of The Price of Privilege and Teach Your Children Well
Todd brings a sensitivity and compassion to his profession together with a strong understanding of how to help parents with their children.
I have enjoyed the opportunity to work closely with him and have been impressed by his perceptiveness and effectiveness in presenting and in parent consulting. Parents can be assured they are in good hands with Todd.
Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D.
Developmental Psychologist and Author of Hold On to Your Kids
I felt like I was failing at everything—being a good mom, having a good marriage, raising kind kids. My husband and I would argue about discipline constantly.
Todd helped us stop fighting each other and start parenting as a team. Our home feels peaceful again, and our kids are thriving. I finally feel proud of the parent I am.
Emily
Mom of 3, Mill Valley, CA
Before working with Todd, parenting felt like a constant tug-of-war. One of us wanted more structure, the other wanted more connection, and we couldn’t agree on anything.
It started to affect our marriage—we were both exhausted and frustrated and didn't feel heard. Todd helped us step back, understand our kids better, and most importantly, understand each other. We finally feel like we’re parenting from the same place.
Our kids feel it too. There’s more peace in our home—and in our relationship.
Ashley & David
Parents of 2, Saratoga, CA
I used to yell a lot. I’m not proud of it. But I didn’t know how else to get through to my son.
Todd helped me understand what was going on beneath the behavior—and gave me a completely different way to respond. It changed everything.
Jason
Father of two boys, Seattle, WA
Books can offer insight—but they can’t offer transformation. What’s missing for most parents isn’t information; it’s application, support, and accountability. The Transformative Parenting Process is an intensive, guided experience that helps you actually implement what works—in your unique family, with your unique child. You won’t be doing this alone, and you’ll see real change not just in behavior, but in connection, peace, and confidence at home.
Yes. In fact, this approach is designed for kids who don’t respond to typical strategies. Strong-willed children are often deeply sensitive and need connection, structure, and leadership—not control. The tools you’ll learn will help you shift the dynamic so that your child feels safe to follow your lead. Many parents of intense, challenging kids have said, “This is the first thing that actually worked.”
Traditional therapy often focuses on insight or diagnosis, but doesn’t always provide a clear roadmap for change. What we do is coaching: it’s practical, structured, and deeply transformational. You’ll still get emotional support—but you’ll also get a step-by-step process, tools that work, and real-time guidance. It’s less about talking through the past and more about building a new future at home.
That’s common—and it doesn’t mean you can’t move forward. Many couples start this process with different styles and concerns. Our approach helps you align without blaming, and gives you language and tools to communicate more effectively—not just with your child, but with each other. The bonus workshop “Parenting with Your Partner” is specifically designed to help with this.
This is built for busy, overwhelmed parents. Most spend 2–5 hours a week between the live call and optional support tools. And the truth is—doing nothing often costs more time and energy in the long run. What you’ll learn here makes everyday parenting easier, calmer, and more connected. It’s not about doing more, it’s about doing what works.
We share many values with those approaches—like respect, empathy, and avoiding harsh punishment. But what makes the Transformative Parenting Process different is that it’s rooted in attachment science and developmental psychology, not just behavior. We don’t just manage symptoms; we go deeper to shift the underlying dynamic. That’s where real change happens.
Often, moms are the first to reach out—but when dads do join, they’re usually glad they did. This approach isn’t about being soft or permissive. It combines strong, confident leadership with real connection, which many fathers find refreshing and effective. Once they see the results, they often become strong advocates for the process. And even if only one parent starts, positive change at home is still absolutely possible.
We understand that this is a meaningful investment—and also that the cost of staying stuck can be even greater. We offer flexible payment options, but if now isn’t the right time, there are still powerful ways to start. Our free masterclass, weekly newsletter, and YouTube channel all offer real tools and insights you can use right away. You don’t have to do this alone—and we’re here to help whenever you’re ready.
It’s not too late. Children are remarkably resilient, and research shows that repair—showing up differently after disconnection—is one of the most powerful gifts you can offer. The longer patterns go unaddressed, the more they tend to harden, but change is still possible. The sooner you begin, the easier it is to rebuild trust and shift the dynamic. You don’t have to have been perfect—what matters most is what you do now.