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Because Great Parenting Shouldn't Feel this Hard
You’re Doing Everything Right
So Why Does It Still Feel So Wrong?
Transformative
Parenting
You’ve given your children every advantage: a good home, great schools, enriching activities, and all your love. But you still wake up exhausted, end the day in conflict, and wonder if you’re screwing it all up.
The power struggles. The yelling. The fights with your partner about what “good parenting” even means.
You’re not failing. You’re just missing the right map.
Reclaim Peace at Home
Without Losing Yourself in the Process
At Transformative Parenting, we help devoted parents like you turn daily chaos into calm, connection, and clarity.
Through our masterclass and proven 90-day coaching process, we help you:
Stop yelling and start connecting with your kids
Get your spouse on the same page without blame or resentment
Build a peaceful home where everyone feels seen, heard, and secure
You don’t need another parenting book. You need a proven process
Different Levels of Support.
One Proven Path to Transformation.
Created for Parents Who Want More
Than Just “Survival Mode”
We work with parents who are:
Committed to their children's well-being
Open to real growth and honest self-reflection
Ready to break unhealthy patterns
2,000+ Families
Real change.
Real connection.
Proven Process
Life-changing results
in just 3 months.
Expert-Led
Backed by 20+ years
of experience.
1 Home at at Time
You don't have to
do this alone.
Don't Take Our Word For It
Todd does something delicate and rare. He brings great depth, genuine expertise and practical advice and yet balances this with compassion and humility.
In a field where so many parenting 'experts' unwittingly leave a parent feeling inadequate, Todd empowers.
Kim John Payne, M.Ed.
Author of Simplicity Parenting and The Soul of Discipline
Todd is one of the most intuitive, instructive and down to earth practitioners I know. His classes always get rave reviews. Most importantly, he leaves parents with reassurance and direction.
The toughest part about educating parents is making sure that they leave with practical, enforceable and realistic solutions for their particular family. Todd delivers in spades.
Madeline Levine, Ph.D.
Clinical Psychologist and Author of The Price of Privilege and Teach Your Children Well
Todd brings a sensitivity and compassion to his profession together with a strong understanding of how to help parents with their children.
I have enjoyed the opportunity to work closely with him and have been impressed by his perceptiveness and effectiveness in presenting and in parent consulting. Parents can be assured they are in good hands with Todd.
Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D.
Developmental Psychologist and Author of Hold On to Your Kids
I felt like I was failing at everything—being a good mom, having a good marriage, raising kind kids. My husband and I would argue about discipline constantly.
Todd helped us stop fighting each other and start parenting as a team. Our home feels peaceful again, and our kids are thriving. I finally feel proud of the parent I am.
Emily
Mom of 3, Mill Valley, CA
Before working with Todd, parenting felt like a constant tug-of-war. One of us wanted more structure, the other wanted more connection, and we couldn’t agree on anything.
It started to affect our marriage—we were both exhausted and frustrated and didn't feel heard. Todd helped us step back, understand our kids better, and most importantly, understand each other. We finally feel like we’re parenting from the same place.
Our kids feel it too. There’s more peace in our home—and in our relationship.
Ashley & David
Parents of 2, Saratoga, CA
I used to yell a lot. I’m not proud of it. But I didn’t know how else to get through to my son.
Todd helped me understand what was going on beneath the behavior—and gave me a completely different way to respond. It changed everything.
Jason
Father of two boys, Seattle, WA
Reclaim Peace at Home
Without Losing Yourself in the Process
Watch the Free Masterclass Discover the 3 hidden traps even smart, successful parents fall into—and how to avoid them.
Apply the Tools at Home You’ll start seeing shifts in behavior and connection—even after just one video.
Join the Full Coaching Experience for families ready for true transformation, our 90-day program offers personalized coaching and a complete roadmap.
Frequently Asked Questions
I’ve read all the parenting books and still feel stuck. How is this different?
Most parenting advice offers generic tips or temporary fixes. Transformative Parenting focuses on your family’s unique dynamics. Todd’s 20+ years as a psychotherapist and developmental expert mean you’re getting science-backed tools that address the root of struggles—not just surface behaviors.
My kid is defiant/strong-willed. Will this work for us?
Absolutely. Strong-willed kids need secure leadership, not control. Todd’s approach teaches you to set boundaries while deepening connection, so cooperation comes from trust—not fear or bribes.
How is this different from therapy or family counseling?
Therapy often focuses on healing the past; Todd’s coaching is action-oriented. You’ll get step-by-step strategies for today’s battles (bedtime meltdowns, sibling fights, partner disagreements) while building long-term emotional health for your whole family.
What if my spouse and I parent totally differently?
You’re not alone. Todd specializes in helping couples align without blame. The 90-Day Program includes tools to bridge gaps, so you parent as a team—even if you start out worlds apart.
I’m exhausted. How much time will this take?
Free Masterclass: 1 hour (immediate insights).
Self-Paced Course: 10–15 mins/day for small, sustainable changes.
90-Day Program: Deeper work, but we prioritize ease—no homework piles.
Why is your approach better than positive parenting/gentle discipline/etc.?
Todd combines attachment science with real-world practicality. No idealism—just tools that work when you’re tired, rushed, or at your wit’s end. (Even if you’ve tried other methods and failed.)
Is this just for moms? Dads feel overwhelmed too!
Dads are welcome (and often thrive here!). Todd’s strategies speak to all caregivers—whether you’re a CEO, stay-at-home parent, or co-parenting across households.
What if I can’t afford the 90-Day Program?
Start with the Free Masterclass or self-paced course. Many parents see enough progress there—but if you need deeper support, payment plans are available.
I’m worried I’ve already damaged my kids. Is it too late?
Never. Kids are resilient, and repair is always possible. Todd’s helped families with teens, adoptees, and high-conflict dynamics rebuild trust—even after years of struggle.
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